Accountability Starts With You – Dr. Robyne Hanley-Dafoe

Accountability Starts with You

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In today’s episode, Dr. Robyne unpacks what it really means to hold ourselves—and others—accountable. She begins with the foundation of self-accountability: knowing your values, defining your personal “line,” and recognizing when you’re operating above or below it. Through relatable stories and honest reflection, she explores how clarity, integrity, and well-expressed expectations shape how we lead, parent, and show up for ourselves and others, and she highlights how consistent follow-through builds lasting self-trust.

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Dr. Robyne Hanley-Dafoe

An educational behaviorist (one of very few in the world) and a globally recognized speaker and scholar, Dr. Robyne Hanley-Dafoe is also your friendly neighborhood scientist who makes life make sense! With a treasure trove of awards and a worldwide following, she’s on a mission to empower leaders and teams everywhere with practical strategies for fostering resiliency and making stress your ally, not your enemy.

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